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The Impact of Sexual History on Friendships
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- Jumping from one relationship to another without taking the necessary time to be single is a common pitfall. Ever wondered why some people, both men and women, fear being alone or use relationships for convenience? We kick things off by exploring this pattern, discussing the importance of self-reflection and personal growth. Our crew reunites, celebrating personal achievements and the empowering work of our lingerie line, setting the stage for an unfiltered dialogue on relationships.
- Navigating the complexities of modern romance, we explore the emotional weight of monogamy and the boundaries of open relationships. Since 2016, I’ve been single and honest about dating multiple people, sharing my cautious approach to commitment. We tackle the trauma associated with forced intimacy and the unexpected dynamics introduced by threesomes and open relationships, emphasizing the need for clear communication and mutual consent in maintaining healthy relationships.
- From the emotional intricacies of friendships mixed with sexual relationships to the power dynamics in intimate encounters, our conversation is raw and insightful. We examine the ethics of informing friends about past involvements and the impact of promiscuity on friend groups. Whether it’s handling jealousy in polyamorous situations or finding humor in life’s unpredictable moments, we underscore the necessity for honesty, clarity, and mutual respect in all our interactions. Tune in for a candid examination of intimacy, trust, and the boundaries that define our relationships.
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Welcome to Real Spit Talk and then they get out of those relationships and they jump into another one, normally not ready for that. You need to be single. You don't like being alone, you don't like being single, and if you like fucking a plethora of women, why not just be single instead of putting yourself? Back into that situation because if it wasn't the case, then you'd just be single it's not the case because it's you not wanting to be alone yeah because you'll get in a relationship you know you ain't ready for it and still be fucking other women and
Speaker 4on that note, welcome back to another episode of real spit talk. I'm super geek because I feel like we have it. It's been forever since we've all been here, so we took a break all the time we did hey toast to us all being able to be here yeah, yeah. Queen, queen, Blessings blessings.
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Speaker 3my bad, this dude, aka dude in depth. Yeah, antoine, comedian empowerment speaker, host, business consultant, parent, all of the above. So I'll make you cool, I'll make you cool. I ain't gonna tell them that you gotta get there you gotta get there, you gotta get there you gotta get there we were saying real ass bitch talk if you haven't been around.
Speaker 3Like drop a new episode. Check on the old previous episodes. Get the new episodes when they drop. It's real ass spit talk. If you haven't been around, drop a new episode. Check on the old previous episodes. Get the new episodes when they drop. But it was some real ass conversation we were just having before that. I want to jump back into yes, and we was talking about having no, I remember I was talking about people being able to have some time in between relationship.
Speaker 2I'm not a fan of being with people who have to be in a relationship in relationship, in relationship, and what I was saying was I'm seeing it a lot in men, like usually it's a that's a woman thing, you know, a woman out of desperation and loneliness. A lot of times they go from relationship to relationship, but for some reason nowadays I'm seeing it happening a lot with men and men that actually have infidelity issues and, you know, sleeping around and stuff like that. And so my, my question is why, when you get out of that relationship, when it ends because of those reasons, why not just be by yourself?
Speaker 1why get into another relationship with another woman knowing you?
Speaker 2still fucking other women. It just makes no sense to me.
Speaker 4I have me. Oh you do well, okay. So for a woman, I think, pretty generally, it's the the, the feel of the need to have a man or whatever. And I think, maybe with men, some men, because first off some men are doing it for places to stay, it's true, and apart they wouldn't. That's why I say sometimes Not if they know they got to show.
Speaker 2That's why they only show up in the wintertime because all summer they have places they can stay and stay outside. I'm outside.
Speaker 1I'm outside. My car is on the road.
Speaker 2That's why I keep that bitch running with the heat on. They're fresh out of a friend's house or whatever they got to do In the.
Speaker 4My second thought for why men would do it other than you know, the housewives are the men who just um, not necessarily the same type of need of desperation as a woman, but but maybe to have someone like kind of just be that consistent home.
Speaker 2Yeah, that's I. I see where you're going with that, because I was thinking the same thing. Maybe they do it to really have that one woman that does have the qualities that they would look for, that's true. But the one woman that cooks clean provides that vibe to you, that that you know, when I'm with her, that's home and who's not going to do that unless we're together.
Speaker 1I'm not going to give you the right. You're out here dating, right.
Speaker 2You're obviously getting to know people in tv like the most natural one that you click by with. Most is when you start spending more time with. So all of that is time and progression, right. We're talking about fast pace. We're talking about him getting out of this relationship and, because he is missing all that, that might be what he had in his thoughts, but what if he's jumping?
Speaker 4into another relationship, not to get that.
Speaker 3What if he's jumping into a good relationship with one of the if?
Speaker 2he's jumping into the relationship with one of the ones he was cheating on the main ones with. You know what I'm saying? The next one up in line, but then he's still cheating on her with the other women that she was in, the plethora of. You know what I'm saying. I don't know. Could it be possible? Because she was in a relationship with him.
Speaker 4Yeah, that been because she was putting pressure on him. He just like fuck it.
Speaker 3Yeah, you know, I don't know, because to me a lot of this shit deal with like we're talking about, like cheating and shit, right, so yeah, like well, I'm jumping into stuff. Yeah, I just will. Well, jumping into stuff. That's a, that's a part I don't. I don't understand it. I don't want to understand it, because you talk about people who do shit like that you talk about. You need time to kill, even if you don't feel like you hurt, right. You need time to figure out why this thing did or didn't work yes you know.
Speaker 3I mean, is there anything? So that's why I look at certain shit like if people are moving fast, like in my opinion I don't tell anybody who take my approach because I don't know if this shit working for me or not but if a motherfucker can't successfully be your friend, why the fuck would you be dating them Right? And if you are having a hard time dating them, why would you exclusively date them, right? So so when you talk about people who go from person to person to person, that's because your ass is broke, you're not healed and you feel like you need somebody else to complete your life. Yeah, like, and you feel like you need somebody else to complete your life. Yeah, like, you know some I got, I got a daughter who's 12. A lot of these dad, this person, the boyfriend, a girlfriend, I'm like how you trying to complete yourself. They need something that somebody complete, they sell, and you 12 motherfuckers is 40, 50 being people to complete them. Complete your own self, come into as a better package. That's my opinion.
Speaker 4Yeah, but when I see, I see beautiful women and if they, I see the relationship, the relationship, my mind instantly is like nah, yeah, I'm not gonna have me as part of your healing package personally, um, personally, like I, I personally, I I'll be, like I'll be single for a good six months before I even let people know I'm out of a fucking relationship. And like I got a question, I was about to ask this on Facebook the other day because I'll be seeing it and my question is on social media when y'all were people, so when y'all like be putting I'm single, I'm free.
Speaker 4Do y'all do that, because like you're trying to hurt the person because they're on your Facebook. Or are you doing that because you're trying to holler at somebody on your Facebook? You're thinking it's going to get your attention?
Navigating Relationships and Commitment
Speaker 2I think they do it for multiple reasons, but I think the main one especially if you have the person that you fuck with on your page, you want to hurt them, because you know that once they let the world he or she let the world know that they're single. All you're going to be thinking about is the woman Trying to talk to them. Yeah, the females. You knew that secretly that's your friend, but secretly like your guy Now he's single you worried about them being in the inbox. Women people ask let me use your phone. You know I'll make a call right quick and be looking in your inbox. That's too crazy.
Speaker 1What I'm gonna use your phone I'll make a call right quick and be looking in your.
Speaker 2That's too crazy. What is this? What is happening?
Speaker 3That's crazy. If it's somebody who becomes single, if I was interacting with I still would be encouraging them to do what the fuck they need to do, Like somebody who get mad off If your ex or the person who you was interacting with said they'll get mad. No, If you a solid motherfucker, I want this person to go find a lover. It don't got to even be me. Go find that's because I care as a person, I care as a friend. It don't got to be like you ain't with me. I don't want to see you. I'm glad you're single and then when you're making an announcement, you're really finna get them thirst buckets and all that shit.
Speaker 2So I'll be like go ahead and do that shit and then I know, since I'm, I'm my own competition.
Speaker 3So it ain't like finding nothing new and comparable. Yeah, it's just like, please go and see what's that.
Speaker 2Yeah, go out there and see what the fuck happened and and, and you appreciate me a lot more yes, well, you, you just confirmed some shit that I was just talking about before we even started, uh, recording. But I was just talking about a situation that I was just talking about before we even started recording, but I was just talking about a situation that I was in. I've been single since 2016. You know my last relationship with old girl and, um, I'm not, I don't, I do not, I don't know, I don't know what it is, but I do not commit easily. I don't. I'm not the type of person that's la la romantic in love and just, I'm a very, um, rational person when it comes to all of that shit and I do not commit easily.
Speaker 2I have had people beg me for monogamy and I'll just be like, listen, I I'm fucking with different niggas right now. You know, I'm saying I'm very honest, I'm very and I'm not ready to be in a committed relationship. It takes a lot for me to want to settle down with somebody, because that means a lot to me. To me, when I tell you I'm going to be monogamous to you, I don't know whatever period of time, but in that time period, I'm saying I'm going to be your everything. And when I say everything, I mean every fucking thing your chef, your teacher, your this, your that, your porn star. You know what I'm saying. And so to ask people for monogamy, I think people really need to understand what that means. You know what I'm saying. And then when you ask for monogamy and you're dating to marry, that takes shit to a whole another level. So I'm very cautious with commitment. I'm not the bitch that be like you gotta be my man you gotta be.
Speaker 2I'm like no, let's date, let's date. I feel like that has everything to do with sleeping with someone else, like people bank relationships solely on other people, because there's people that that would be in relationships. You're not having sex with him, but you don't want him to have sex with anybody. No, where. Where where's the balance, you know? I mean, he's coming home and and he, but he's not getting anything. Yeah, how can that still be your deal breaker?
Speaker 1and you know that's hard for me, cause I'm a self purpose thing.
Speaker 2You know what I mean. There's wives that have done that, pushed their husbands and now you want to get a divorce because he cheated, but you ain't telling them that. You explaining to your girls how you was feeling sabotaged, how long you been holding it, you ain't giving it to him. He gonna have to fuck somebody else, but the moment he does, it's divorce and you burning, piggybacking off of that you know a long time ago.
Speaker 4I'm older now, so a long time ago. When you're young and in relationships and you're angry, you use sex as a weapon, like I'm not gonna fuck you cause I'm angry at some point in life. I grew up first off because why I got to be punished. I still want dick, right.
Speaker 2Why do I have to be punished? You're punishing yourself.
Speaker 4Right.
Speaker 1Self-sabotage, I definitely learned. I mean, some people don't consider it a punishment because they don't care.
Speaker 4I consider it a punishment because I won't.
Speaker 2I don't want to be touched if we into it. That's how I'm running.
Speaker 4No listen Until we get on the same level.
Speaker 2I'm not saying you can't have make-up sex, but I'm saying we gotta talk about this shit.
Speaker 2My baby brother used to be very aggressive when we used to get into it and he used to paint me the fuck down and do his business after we would get into it, like physically Fight, that's rape. That to paint me the fuck down and do his business after we would get into it, like physically Fight, that's rape. You know what I'm saying? That's fucking rape. So that's why I'm not a fan of the whole fucking on me while we really have to be.
Speaker 1I don't like that.
Speaker 4I'm not a fan of that, but that's because of trauma and that's very understandable.
Speaker 2And also to be fair, when I'm talking about mad, it definitely I can get my rocks off and still go back to being mad at you after I got you.
Speaker 2But see, this is my thing. For me now, as a grown person, as a 37-year-old woman, sex is mental. For me it is. So it's not just a physical for me, like oh, daddy over there looking real good and I'm mad at him, but I want some dick right now. It's like nigga, we not connected. Right now we're not, we're not thinking. So we gotta have a conversation, Okay so think about it. We don't have this conversation.
Speaker 3Yeah, we might be petty, but I'll do it right. We don't have this conversation, we're going to figure it out. So think of it this way Now you're in a relationship, this isn't just somebody that you're attracted to, I should end the live.
Speaker 3Let me see how many people we got on the live. I can put a time on it. You can put a time on it. We have five people watching. Five people watching. You can set a time on the live. You probably can't set a time. You can't set a time on the live. Y'all tune in later. Thank y'all for tuning in. You got something to say. You better say something and like and share. Like and share.
Open Relationship and Honesty Debate
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Speaker 3I'm going to give you a few moments. We're just real shit talk, we're talking real shit.
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Speaker 2Yes, and on Facebook. Follow us on Facebook, youtube and see episodes and other content. Yes, but back back back into these cards. Yeah, yeah, let's, let's get into these cards, because there was a card in there that we hold on hold on. That had me baffled.
Speaker 4I got four cards. Go, shoot it, shoot it, shoot it, hold on.
Speaker 3I want to see y'all answer it.
Speaker 4Put it down and somebody got to pull you didn't answer it.
Speaker 2You can't pull. Why I can't pull? Put it down. You can't pull. You know I'm jerking everything out of your thing.
Speaker 4What up? One thing you're they split it.
Speaker 2They don't they split it, they split.
Speaker 1I get this show right now.
Speaker 2I told you, I told you my opinion, I do, and I'm okay with it, you know until I can feel and think that about myself. The backup cam I can look at it, I look at the rear view or I'm like that. I love my backup cam.
Speaker 3I don't trust nobody. I'm not going to be closer than it. This nigga don't trust nobody.
Speaker 2So your partner says she or he does not want to Introduce dishonesty into the relationship, so, with your permission, they'd like to go sleep with someone else. What are you doing?
Speaker 4Who want to go first? I'll go last. My shit is real concise, so um, no, no, I'm like. You didn't read the options. They got options.
Speaker 2I don't think we need to get into those options because I'm on both sides.
Speaker 2Like I, I was in a relationship with a female and I came to her that way you know what I'm saying, I'm very blunt, I'm very honest and upfront and I came to her and I said, you know I'm bisexual, you know I like men. You know what I'm saying. But I love you and I respect you. So I want to have a conversation with you about bringing a man into our relationship not just any man, you know like a good one to it. And I had a good one. And you know she acted like she was cool with it and I brought him to the house so he could sit down and he could tell her what he could offer us.
Speaker 2You know what I'm saying. And I thought it was going well. And then she bugged the fuck up on me later Because I think it really came into her mind like this bitch really did me harm. You know what I'm saying Like I was really getting him. You know what I'm saying Like I was really feeling him. I was as a woman you can jump into how a woman might feel and she probably created all types of scenarios, all types of scenarios Men fucking him. Y'all been fucking this probably which.
Speaker 2I have been fucking him Not while me and her was together.
Speaker 1But I have been in a previous I'm talking about, while y'all together.
Speaker 2She created hope because a woman would say that you got a chance to fuck before One minute.
Speaker 1But she loved me too.
Speaker 2You only had one minute to spare from the normal time you actually show up and she'll still find a way to calculate you doing some shit. But I didn't understand her reaction, because she loved it too. She, like you know, she's mad. She loves jealousy.
Speaker 1Absolutely.
Speaker 2She loves jealousy, absolutely, absolutely. But don't tell me she has to trust you to. But why wouldn't you trust me when I've been up front and bought this? I ain't never lying okay, I ain't never lying but one.
Speaker 4It wasn't one, okay, okay. So my point of view I'm, I'm, I'm very different anyway, because I, I can understand and see how polygamy can work for relationships. Sometimes it really legit just takes more than that one person, because you can find 90% of what you want overall in a person, but if they don't have that 10% that you want to go get some wealth. So that's why. But the difference is a conversation and an agreement, you know and I did that yeah, yeah yeah, but and I don't understand that part, simply because it wasn't.
Speaker 4You agree, it wasn't, it wasn't like, like, well, you agree, but it also wasn't like I was just saying, I'm only gonna fuck with him.
Speaker 1Yeah, introducing him to us, okay, us?
Speaker 2the question is if your partner or your partner said it to you. I would be open to that, because I'm open to believing it would be a discussion. It's simple as that.
Speaker 1It's fairness but I believe.
Speaker 2I will come down with what's your response, even though you know there's room for shit too you gotta agree on the person and all this shit, but I just so y'all open for the conversation.
Speaker 3What's that you want? What's that conversation? What's your?
Speaker 2answer to that they're telling you that it's someone that they don't. Don't put it. Y'all ready to read this one? The person is someone that we're ready for.
Speaker 3Oh, we got people watching. Don't show out in front of these people. Your partner says she or he doesn't want to introduce dishonesty into the relationship. So, with your permission, they like to go sleep with someone else. What are you doing? Giving them your blessing, thanking them for their honesty and then breaking up with them, telling them no so but but that's why.
Speaker 2That's why that's why I was saying for me, if this is, that's the conversation and and we really talk about bringing somebody in, that's one thing, but if you tell me you just gonna go. No but, but. But if we being literal, that means they're telling you they want to fuck somebody else without you.
Speaker 3That's why I said I'm in between on this one. I'm going to fuck it together.
Speaker 1I'm saying the same thing, I'm saying the
Speaker 2same thing, me and my baby going to see the other bitch.
Speaker 4That's why we didn't read the article, because we making our own man.
Speaker 2And you telling me you finna, go fuck another bitch without me? I don't know. We in tour my. And you telling me you finna go fuck another bitch without me. I don't know. We ain't doing nothing. Bring the bitch over here. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3I'm going to fuck her too, amen, amen.
Speaker 2I mean that's an open relationship and for some people that are not open, that's not necessarily an open relationship. No, open relationship is that it's on both sides.
Speaker 4And that's subjectable to whatever the people agree to.
Speaker 2It.
Speaker 4That's subject to. Whatever the people agree to, it's the rules versus them that's subject to them.
Speaker 2We're debating against them questions.
Speaker 3What's your answer? Right Is your person. Is you?
Speaker 2open to what's your shit mom. Your woman telling you she's going to go fuck somebody else.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2And you cool with it or you're not cool with it.
Speaker 4I'm cool with it, but she's not my woman, no, no or you're not cool with it. I'm cool with it, but she's not my woman. No, no, she's your woman. She's your woman.
Speaker 2Say that, say it again, she's not my woman, no more basically she's not my woman after that just simply because it's different with a man, you're going to allow someone to penetrate, to submission, to dominate you. No one's dominating me if I decided to do that and I said that to you, even though a lot of women say they want men to be upfront and honest about those types of things and they can make their own choices and decision if they want to stay or leave and go. But we know 99 of the time they're gonna to go. They're going to choose to go. No, I disagree.
Navigating Relationships and Communication
Speaker 4I'm not into it. I'm sorry to interrupt you. Going like what.
Speaker 2They're not going. What do you mean? They're staying and they battle it out with the other bitch. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4A majority of women do but go ahead.
Speaker 3Yeah.
Speaker 2Yeah.
Speaker 3No, I just had to say because he was like women, be like, I'm leaving.
Speaker 2That's too high of a percentage. That's too, high of a percentage. But that's the option whenever a guy is up front front, because most guys are up front for the most part at the beginning, and then they start tracking when they feel like there's certain shit that they couldn't be honest about. Then they start thinking what you might stand out about and then they withhold based off of that. But I say that because what's your goddamn answer?
Speaker 3He said what. He said what. He said what?
Speaker 2No, he didn't say she not important anymore. Okay, okay, I say that because, well, she'll get an answer. He said you said it. He said you said it. Oh, you think it's just?
Speaker 3confusing to me.
Speaker 2No, he didn't say she not his woman anymore. Okay, okay, I said my answer and I said it. I was talking about other shit. No, I just got the. He said it a lot, y'all always double talking like a motherfucker.
Speaker 3It's not easy to me, but he did say that. But then he went on with this whole other shit.
Speaker 2You want me to listen? Wait a minute Is there anything in addition to she ain't your woman, no more.
Speaker 3Nah that's it.
Speaker 2She over with. It's like. I do appreciate the honesty because he said thank you, goodbye. You're not going to meet many men that can say that a woman actually told them that before she dipped out. Women don't do that. They go find and fuck them. Yeah, whatever Then, once they fuck somebody that they feel like is a good replacement. Now everything comes to the surface Right and all that shit, but that's more the reason why too. Okay, but overall it's because we can be cool afterwards or whatever, but the whole dominating thing.
Speaker 1Yeah, man, I don't think that's some cut code type behavior.
Speaker 2Okay, Twan, what's?
Speaker 4your answer.
Speaker 3I have a conclusion. I have a complete answer you were ready on this. They said you're giving them your blessing If they want to have sex with somebody. They definitely get my blessing.
Speaker 3And then the next part says thank them for the honesty. They're breaking up. I'm not gonna do the work. Break up, whatever that means, is insane. I can't have sex with you no more. If that makes sense. I want you to be cool. Blah, blah, blah. I just can't, cuz I just don't. A lot of men are nasty and I can't come after all that other shit. I need to make sure everything operates in certain ways, so I can't tell them no, I can just basically give the same honesty and truth, like hey, if this is what you want to do, at least let me know. If that's what you want to do, have fun.
Speaker 2So there ain't no hard feelings, I hope that so they know how it works.
Speaker 3So if you telling, me.
Speaker 2Maybe I wanna bring somebody else in and let's do this. That's where. I'm coming from. That's that answer. If you, finna, just tell me I'm finna, go fuck somebody else without you. No, we not doing that. So I think we all agree on that.
Speaker 3You got mine. Look, look, look, look. I ain't gonna do that, baby, I'm gonna make sure we get all the kids in the gap.
Speaker 2Let's do our mission. Let's hold out this, let's hold out this Come on, who is your home?
Speaker 4I love women.
Speaker 2I love women so yeah, but in this case you can't make sure women that love women.
Speaker 3But no, no, no, no and for real love women Not somebody who really love women.
Speaker 4No, I don't mean that. I don't mean that. Let me answer, let me answer because I am a woman who I like your body. I'm not. I don't have the desire whatsoever to be pussy. I don't but you will let a woman.
Speaker 2That's what I'm saying, I'm talking about.
Speaker 1Oh, that's when I say a woman that really loves women, because women who don't love women and play that they get jealous.
Speaker 4All that next to you know a piece of I, but I would not be opposed to that and I'm just speaking to about it's situations like that, but I feel like it's not situations like that, it's insecure people, because when you're secure with yourself, I'm secure with myself in whatever position that I hold, right, if I don't feel secure in that situation, I'm just not going to do anything. You might be insecure.
Speaker 2I think you're so dry, right, I'm so dry girl. I like that you said Okay, okay, I agree, but that was.
Speaker 4I'm just throwing out that in those cases they're insecure women.
Navigating Threesome Dynamics and Relationships
Speaker 2That's what that is Let me speak this simple, though Me and my first. I had a girlfriend, and she was the one who became jealous of the way he was fucking me. She couldn't watch my man fuck me. And we brought you into this shit. We brought her into this. Well, actually I brought her into this Because she's women to you, yeah. The problem that she's women to you, yeah, and that's what I was going to add. The problem that she's saying that some women have that don't, or that don't love women Insecure and jealous.
Speaker 3You're rooting for me, yeah right, I'm trying to make sure I'm deep. It's just close to 30 days of double love.
Speaker 2It goes the same way. If that woman feels like that about that man, right it's like I only fucking because I want to fuck you. Yeah, she's only fucking me because she want to fuck you, yeah, so therefore she don't really want me to interact the way that she won't.
Speaker 4Yeah, and I have to learn. I take that as jealousy and insecurity. Yeah, absolutely, you're right, it is that, but what she's?
Speaker 1saying is that majority of most of the people that that don't do that.
Speaker 2don't love women in that way, yeah no-transcript. I don't really give a fuck, but that's what I'm saying though a lot of women who do it just for their man and they're not really. They're hurting their own place you're going to get judged.
Speaker 3You're going to get hurt it's true, you know how they say God knows your heart If you're doing this for this man. It's Sunday. He didn't make you drink.
Speaker 4He didn't make you drink. He spilled my drink.
Speaker 3If your heart is in a place of doing it for the man, then that's manipulation. You're doing it for a certain reason.
Speaker 4Usually, they have been talking to you. This is where manipulation comes in. You're talking to you, Listen. This is where manipulation comes in.
Speaker 3You're talking to it. That means they coerce, they feel like they're going to do this for a reason to get a certain result versus it being a natural thing to do to them. But what I'm saying is they're not usually the ones who suggest it.
Speaker 4It's the man who suggests it, Right but because she's not going to suggest.
Speaker 2no shit, that's a thing, no sometimes she will suggest it because she's like that's what my man wants and she don't want him to go with two other women, so she'll bring it to him, even though that's what he wants Big mistake Any and every time He'll be like okay, baby, we're going to pick you. That is a big mistake. Bring the woman. She can't pick the woman because she's too busy in her mind thinking about.
Speaker 3And whatever woman he ain't going enough.
Speaker 2Nope.
Speaker 3One.
Speaker 2Yada, neo's ex-wife. She was just talking about this and how she felt like it was the demise of their relationship, their marriage, because Neo was into that, the threesome you know he was encouraging her to have, you know, the threesome with her, and that's not what the fuck she wanted to do. That's what she said.
Speaker 1So she was doing it.
Speaker 2That's what she's saying now.
Speaker 3Ultimately, ultimately you know it caused so much trauma for her. You know what?
Speaker 2I'm saying she couldn't be in a relationship with him anymore. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1Like that's what I'm saying you got.
Speaker 2yes, it's not.
Speaker 3It's not.
Speaker 2Don't do it. Do it on your own accord. Don't do it.
Speaker 3Let the thing happen naturally, don't force it. I can say that, like it's. I hate to be as open as I am to be transparent. It's no goddamn secret. Most natural men on the earth would like to have a threesome, and or more. It's possible that it may be. It's like that. You know, maybe one out of ten to Two out of ten niggas might not want it.
Speaker 1Maybe three out of ten, I don't know, but.
Speaker 3I'm just saying but there's men who don't want that. But for me, I would like to get my balls licked at the same time.
Speaker 2No, it's some men that come from a place of selfishness.
Speaker 1They don't want to see nobody with their motherfucking hands on you.
Speaker 2You'll get jealous because she eating your pussy. Yeah, they don't want to see nobody know what they want.
Speaker 3Yeah yeah. If you go check in certain shit, you won't find certain any energies. You won't find people who to be be able to complete the task but they may not be mentally ready Right. That's why I like shit that happen organically. If a motherfucker like you like threesomes, why you just don't go get two business? I don't go seek and go look for shit.
Speaker 1You fucking around and go find out some different shit.
Speaker 3I know I'm a man and I have a decent amount of experiences. You know, it's like you have a threesome and you got somebody who this person has multiple orgasms and this person is fighting and struggling to cum. Nigga, you gotta know what kind of cummerbund you have. And this motherfucker and this motherfucker you can hand up.
Speaker 2You doing everything.
Speaker 4He's so right.
Speaker 2But what I'm saying is energy. I used to be in a swingers club.
Speaker 1I have a lot of experience with this type of stuff.
Speaker 2You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1I've seen people pay their fee, even join this club.
Speaker 2That was my position. I wouldn't fuck a man, and sometimes that's the case, and then it changes because you're aroused. You're sexually aroused. You might be dealing with this woman, but her husband is there too.
Speaker 1And you're in the moment now.
Speaker 2You're fucking the husband and you didn't expect to do that but, it's part of your plan.
Speaker 3Right, it's part of your plan. I don't like the way you think I really do, but that's because you're into women.
Speaker 4If you weren't into women, you'd think that you would be able to do it.
Speaker 3But it's the understanding with your partner. No, but you know what?
Speaker 2No the reason that I had the clause when I was a part of that club of not fucking men is because of the whole marriage thing for me, and I would get permission from the men to fuck and eat on their wives and shit like that. Marriage is sacred to me. Even though we are in this environment, this swingers club, I feel like I still have to have respect for these people's vows and their relationship, even though they're here. You know what I'm saying, you know that I mean they're here. So of course. But, like I said, you see niggas getting. You see, on the Halloween thing, yeah, Exactly what is this thing?
Speaker 3You can have the conversation if you like. Shut up. I don't recall.
Speaker 4I meant it was like it was fucking Halloween and I was sitting there and we were talking about how hot it was and then I was like yeah, I know it is.
Speaker 2It is Cooking on the back of your neck.
Speaker 3Cooking on this bacon neck, bacon neck.
Speaker 1She's going to sizzle. What's up y'all?
Speaker 4What's up y'all?
Speaker 3I hope y'all had a good time. Make sure you tune in subscribe like, share, follow, engage.
Speaker 2Okay, so I'm gonna. Can we go back on video? Real spit-talk, yeah.
Speaker 4Yeah, how long did you say? This one was good. It was when I said it.
Speaker 3It was when I said it no, no, no, we just keep talking and talking.
Speaker 4I don't know how long, what time is it anyway?
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Speaker 4Don't listen, that's what listen this rock told you to begin 19.
Speaker 3They're different.
Speaker 1I said I can record I can Look.
Speaker 3This is not today.
Speaker 4I'm gonna shoot an egg for you.
Speaker 2Come on now. I reached out to him several times.
Speaker 3You know we was waiting. Oh, you gonna do. I turned my back on you I turned my back for one second.
Speaker 2I'll wait until you're right, I'll wait until you're right.
Speaker 4I got it Listen all I'm saying is I read out about $50. You laughed at me. You laughed at me. You said it all. I I'm about $50,000. You laughed at me, you laughed at me.
Speaker 2You said it on me I felt like a joker.
Speaker 4This ain't his dog time. I was like maybe I heard the word right there.
Speaker 3Look, that'll be a good one. That'll be a good one. I've heard the word Shit.
Speaker 2What's your heart state going? Oh yeah, so you've been having a secret and strictly sexual relationship with someone for months and find out your friend will be going on a date with them. What do you do? State claim on what is not yours, nothing sexual things are a fair game. Let your friend know, tell your friends and cancel I'm an ass.
Speaker 4First, I'm definitely telling my friend first off, first off, you can't, I don't even care if I not like really fucking with him like that, even if he my sex buddy, because that's my sex buddy and we're friends like and I've been fucking on him. So why would you even want to fuck on him after I've been fucking?
Speaker 2on him. He said you're going to date, and he said nothing about sex Fuck him Other than that being your sex buddy.
Speaker 1But as far as him going with you.
Speaker 3What do?
Speaker 2people date for oh.
Speaker 4My friend you can't continue to fuck with him. You can't fuck with him like that and y'all talking about some fucking and dating, but let's be serious.
Speaker 1I ain't doing no dating. It says a date, it says a date, so it's being a date.
Speaker 4So she might go out with a date but, she might not even want to fuck with him no more. But what if she? For the first time, you're gonna let her date him, knowing that you're fucking him and it's someone. I'm going to go now. I got to keep my eye on you. I'm going to turn my back.
Speaker 2I'm with you with your right. I'm with you with your right. You're wrong, you're wrong, you're left us for dead. You're left us for dead.
Speaker 3Did you talk to me? But did you talk to me? I'm just a person. You can't talk to me. Don't let me in. Don't let me in. I could swear to.
Speaker 2God, I could swear to God, I could swear to.
Speaker 4God, I could swear to God. I could swear to God.
Speaker 2I could swear to. God. I could swear to God. I could swear to God. I could swear to God. I could swear to God. I could swear to God I could swear to God I could swear to God. I could swear to God. I could swear to God, I could swear to say what the fuck I'm going to say so.
Speaker 2I have in the past when I was fucking a nigga that I don't know but I'm built different that I was fucking in the past that I didn't have feelings for. It was literally nothing but physical attraction. And I done put my girls on to them.
Speaker 1Like my homies.
Speaker 2You know, don't look niggas, don't look at me funny Because y'all know y'all have past bitches around. Niggas past bitches around, they do it they do it. So I don't nobody look at me crazy. No, even if they haven't done it, they know niggas that have. So I have done that in the past, like. But, like I said, for me it's a little bit different because I was so unemotionally attached to people.
Speaker 3You know, what I'm saying that was in my really wild, fucked up days and I really was detached from them. So would you be the same right now? So what's your answer now?
Speaker 2If I'm fucking somebody now, it's because we connected.
Speaker 1I'm telling you Hold on yeah.
Speaker 2I'm going to tell you let's keep it simple Right now. Your spirit.
Speaker 1What?
Speaker 2would you do so? Not the spirit that you did, but what would you do?
Speaker 1right now. Okay, okay, so right now, today.
Speaker 2If I'm fucking a man today, it's because I'm emotionally and mentally attached to him. I'm not just out here fucking like I used to. Right, so yeah, so I'm telling my friend and I'm telling her be so, you cannot. Because this is some a buck if I'm giving the celibate pussy up, this is gonna be my man. This is my whole nigga he is my name, fuck, you mean. So now she definitely can't eat.
Speaker 4I'm gonna kill that he not going on my mother's he don't know that show for a minute.
Speaker 2But wait a minute. You said what we at today. If I'm giving this pussy up to this nigga and this nigga know it. What the fuck you doing? Taking another bitch out on a date, wait a minute.
Speaker 4Okay, wait To throw salt at me.
Speaker 2That ain't changing the rules. That ain't changing the rules, because if I'm fucking you and I'm giving changing the rules, that ain't changing the rules. That ain't changing the rules.
Speaker 1If I'm fucking you and I'm giving you the pussy.
Speaker 2We already agreed upon that shit. I'm not just giving the pussy up.
Speaker 4That's the difference. The question says you know somebody you've been strictly fucking, but it didn't say emotionally. To be fair, a lot of people fuck without emotions. I am not Anybody who tuned in, y'all know I always speak from. A lot of people fuck without emotions. I am not, you know, y'all everybody know anybody who tuned in, y'all know I always speak from a place of personally yeah and personally.
Speaker 4First off, I'm giving you pussy. I I have to like I'm not just into fucking, fucking. I will go back to somebody who I know I have right sexual chemistry with and fuck them before I fuck somebody new right because one you don't even know if it's going good or not, and then you just gave it an extra body, but nothing, oh, like this one is worth the lay down bingo, whatever the it was, it wasn't worth so let him, let this man ask, because I really I know what he's gonna say though you've been having a secret and strictly sexual relationship with someone for months and find out your friend will be going on a date with them.
Speaker 2What do you do?
Speaker 4I like how you tried to enforce the shit on me.
Speaker 1Because y'all are creating a deal. No, it's not. Because, you said today and I said today I'm just talking about it. That's not what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2I said the strictly for when you're having sex. Just because you're having strictly sex doesn't mean you're not emotionally attached.
Speaker 4No that's the point of it saying strictly that there is no emotional attack.
Speaker 1I don't know, I shouldn't be included.
Speaker 2That's when emotions become attached. Y'all do more than just fuck.
Speaker 1It's more than just fuck. It's more than just sex when emotions are attached. Yes, it isn't. Yeah, no, he's right about that, but I shouldn't have been in the pool if emotions are attached.
Speaker 2When he comes over to fuck, he not just leaving out the dough, y'all kicking him before he come y'all smoking. But sex is just sex. Y'all not together, y'all not dating. That's the reason why I set it up that way, not in a way for where you can feel some type of way emotionally. That's why I said strictly, I don't separate strictly from my back in the day.
Speaker 4Well, in a hypothetical way not like in a scenario I'm saying though because you said today I don't think the question is about today, today it says strictly I want to be fucking today Because you said it Okay, wait. That's why I got to get his answer. I don't even know. I have an answer. You got the question in your hand. If you've been having a secret and strictly sexual relationship with someone for months you find out your friend will be going on a date with them.
Speaker 3What do you do, so uh?
Speaker 2I don't be a secret, nothing.
Speaker 3I have nothing to hide. Anything I do from here, I can take it up there. But do people know who?
Speaker 2you fuck. No, no, you have a secret, not secret relationship I hate the word secret. They say private Right, right, right when they mean secret, they mean private, not like some of you trying to keep it. Yeah, right, but private. You know these cars, you know right right and listen, come on, I don't.
Speaker 3So there's a couple different.
Speaker 2No, I'm just saying this is a couple different but you have a private. Y'all respect each other's privacy when y'all deal with each other. Y'all deal with each other because it's strictly sex, so people don't see y'all when I'm in public.
Speaker 3None of that stuff Facebook If it's my friend nine times out of ten my nigga probably know who I'm knocking, not anybody. Only because we ain't finna knock the. Is that right? It's privacy, but my Life because if money you can go out with her now.
Speaker 4I think I know that I'm already.
Speaker 2They know. I'm not saying that's not going to be that possibility. So what's your answer there? I'm not saying that Because you know some of them niggas, they know and they're targeting them, and that's what we're asking.
Speaker 3But this ain't a state claim. If this lady wants to date somebody else, even if I am in a strictly sexual relationship or in a very monogamous relationship with her, let her go.
Speaker 4But it's not about her, it's about your friend. Yeah, but don't hate her. It's just that you tell your friend.
Speaker 3If you're my friend, she's not dating.
Speaker 2Yeah, I'm knocking down Right.
Speaker 3But if that's something they want to do, if she wants to go out with people to find people, you still?
Speaker 4got my, she still got my blessing. What it's?
Speaker 3not my blessing.
Speaker 4My God, my I ain't gonna let him know.
Speaker 2You know why? Yeah, so now you fucking her.
Speaker 4You've been fucking her for some months, he know. And then he accidentally bump into her.
Speaker 3Whatever words you want to use, you know whatever the fuck, yeah, yeah. Because, unless you get at her, he suck her out.
Speaker 1Yeah, that's sucker shit Right. So now your friend. So now you know, you know for a fact, your friend, who knows you're?
Speaker 3fucking with a sucker cause. You said he's going out, he come to you and he like alright, man, look, I know you're fucking with her, but I want to go out on a date with her man.
Speaker 4what is the question?
Speaker 3But if he's asking you, still, he got my blessing because now that's what you want to do and I need to fill a knocker like that. I am not going to issue.
Speaker 2You Decide you want to get the feeling that's a mess.
Speaker 4Why would you tell your friend, knowing that you fucking, that they now we have the group she On the day. No, listen, I've been on a day if nobody knew nothing.
Speaker 3No, listen, I've been in a situation to where Niggas have tried to put me on a woman, thinking they this is a solid woman. I mean, they've been fucking her the whole time you know, if not the whole time, at least before me.
Speaker 2For, but I have done it with I know I have. She said I was doing my best. Hey, y'all gotta understand.
Speaker 1Back in the days I used to be wild. I'm not gonna fuck about nobody's feelings.
Speaker 2Nobody, nothing. I only had three real relationships in my life with people I actually gave a fuck about. Everybody else was different. I did not give a fuck about nobody else's feelings or nothing. So when I was going through my fuck these niggas phase and sponsor nigga phase, I had niggas who would get great head and this and I'd put my bitch on some of that Like that was just, but I'm different.
Speaker 1I'm still a little different.
Speaker 2I'm grown now, but I have changed. So, we were talking about. I was referring to how a chick would try to put you on to a dude. He's a good dude. Boost them all up, and the only thing she leave out is that she fucked them, that's crazy, that's crazy.
Speaker 3That's what he's talking about.
Speaker 2He's talking about a dude boosting a chick up, trying to hook you up with a chick, but don't tell you that they fucking for her, so she a good woman she take care of kids.
Speaker 1She had a pen and got on drugs. You want them? Damn nigga how you know all this shit.
Speaker 3Hey this is crazy, right, because look, watch this. I'm a good game shooter. If this bitch so solid, you think I'm not like her. What happens if I think this nigga hooked me up? I want him to be my best man. I'm finna. Marry this bitch, I want him to be my best man, that's what I said.
Speaker 2That's what I said.
Speaker 3That's what I said.
Speaker 2I'm finna marry, you Shout out to the best man. That's what I said.
Speaker 4Hey look y'all Shout out to the best man. That's what happened. Hey look y'all. I said shout out to the best man. That's what happened More chest up.
Speaker 3That's why niggas ain't have intuition. You know what I'm saying. That's why you gotta have discernment. That's why you gotta understand If a nigga ain't your friend. Some niggas is different niggas around me, Women they be around me. Mad friend they whatever else. They cool, but they should be different. But my point is but if you beating on bitches over here and you're not taking care of your kids, watch over them and and okay but and this so let's restart okay so, on this subject, I want to bring this up because I I think that it's okay.
Speaker 2I'm just saying that. So what's?
Speaker 4up what?
Speaker 2about. It's kind of the same situation, but when back in the days you fuck with somebody, it didn't work out and now we all wrong, and you know these, my friend. I think that that's okay. I think it's okay.
Navigating Friendships and Ex-Partners
Speaker 3I think that's okay, you're talking about with a blessing. You're saying there's no friction here. I honor that. I hope and wish this to you. That's how it should be with everybody.
Speaker 2But you have selfish and jealousy but have somebody not want because of that. You're happy with this man that didn't work with her, so she's going to hold you're happy with this man that didn't work for her, so she's gonna hold.
Speaker 3You try to hold, yeah, girl hold. You've been doing this for 15 years, this is from middle school.
Speaker 4Why, yeah, wait a minute, because that's my question, my follow-up question, definitely pertains to what you just said. Is this something that like? Obviously there's been time in between so now I mean either I mean, I don't know, it didn't work, I don't either I'm saying let me clarify my question.
Speaker 2Let me clarify my question because, I didn't I'm not. There's no time period, just you used to fuck with somebody. It did not work out.
Speaker 1Your people, your friend, your cousin or whomever it is, but there's no children or nothing like that.
Speaker 2But you know they met this person, they, this person is making them happy, this shit working out for them. Do you interfere and be like bitch? I used to fuck with him and it didn't work out. Get the fuck over now you still should tell her.
Speaker 1Yeah, but I'm not gonna keep you from your happiness.
Speaker 2Right, the shit didn't work out between you and him.
Speaker 1Because the chief of prison shouldn't go.
Speaker 2put a date on it and it seemed like it happened yesterday.
Speaker 4Yeah, Okay, so I feel partially the same as you, but mine. Because first off and this is with the preconception that I don't fuck with people unless I'm already emotionally into them. Anyway, I'm not just fucking, you're just fucking. If I'm fucking you, it's because I'm into you and I like you, or whatever. So now for me, if that's the case and now there's been time that's passed, and I'm not emotionally attached to you more than I don't care.
Speaker 1But then it also for me depends on.
Speaker 4Did you know that I fucked with this person in the past and now you're fucking with them because doesn't matter? I mean, it depends on you and you know our friendship. I just think that that would be.
Speaker 1No, but I'm saying but now it don't.
Speaker 2With women it don't be like that. It'd be a distant friend, that you fuck with her now and again. And you find out, you see, she posted a picture with that old nigga you fuck with and now you finna get into it with this bitch.
Speaker 3I know old Zach Morrison Ravens. You know what I want to put a time out. This is a, this is a clause. If you have a whole friend, is it male or female, your friend is very loose. They're trying to holler everybody. Don't let them stop you by telling you they used to talk yeah.
Speaker 2I really dealt with it. I had a friend that was Promiscuous. I mean, I think at the time all of us had been a little bit promiscuous, but she was overly sexual.
Speaker 3So everybody that you've met, yeah, everybody I've come in contact with, she's like oh, I already talked to that nigga and I'm like damn.
Speaker 2So then he's putting so many restrictions on me and you didn't do that purposely to hold other women on the girl code. Yeah, no, he's right, really. You ain't got the power to hold other women on the girl code.
Speaker 1Yeah no, he's right, he's right, and it's like no Bitch it's my fault, I'm wrong.
Speaker 2I'm not real, I'm not loyal, but, bitch, you done fucked 2,000 niggas in Madison, half the niggas I told you I liked first and you wouldn't fuck them afterwards, because she knows that. She knows that deep down she don't hold. But I've been in it for my best, it's the same with me.
Speaker 4I say it all the time.
Speaker 2It was just. No, it was that she fucked. A lot of these niggas first, but damn bitch. You ain't even know that I got no niggas first, but damn bitch you ain't even know them.
Speaker 4So okay, so, so, so I got no niggas left. Yeah, no. And to be fair to be fair. That is an excellent point because, again, when I talk I'm always talking from personally, and personally how I feel is I have some type of connection.
Speaker 1I'm like one of the only single people in my group of people.
Speaker 4They married and engaged and shit like that. So I'm like one of the only single people in my fucking people, so I don't have that experience. But yeah, if it's like a friend who's a hoe and you was just fucking their body bitch, you ain't really give a fuck about that nigga.
Speaker 2Yeah, like bitch, I'm happy he's finna, marry me and take care of my motherfucking kids and shit. You don't want me to be happy, bitch. You fucked him one night. Y'all had a one night stand and now I'm supposed to.
Speaker 4Yeah, see, won't you back him? I didn't even know that was the same Steve, okay.
Speaker 3Yeah like Jesus yeah like Jesus. I don't believe in keeping people from making it.
Speaker 2If it didn't work out, period, then have it.
Speaker 4I feel like it's a grab I don't know about the period part. But if it's a whole friend and they fuck their body, I feel like there's a little more leniency to that. But when there was someone like me who fucks emotionally and if you're my friend and you knew I was fucking with this person and we're still friends Now, if we fell out and then you and that person leave, whatever Right, that feels like shit to me, though it is. It is, but you know because, obviously, when I was fucking with him he was looking at him.
Speaker 1That's why I say this If we we're friends and you fuck with him now.
Speaker 4That's right.
Speaker 1You know why she didn't, but wouldn't then I Set me in a whole ass relationship, happy in this fucking relation and then be but hurt and upset and in a feeling because they friend, or Distant friend because it's never a real close friend, because they do respect each other.
Speaker 3It's not close friends.
Speaker 1I said they never friend, Right right.
Speaker 4One person is a real friend and the other person is not, obviously. But yeah, so for me it all depends on my actual friendship with the person Because, knowing me, I emotionally was already attached to that person. And if you are my friend and we're still friends throughout the whole situation and I found out that you was fucking with him, like that makes me like I'm not going to be mad, but I'm just going to move differently.
Speaker 2You're not my friend because you would have never actually become friends, because weall didn't become friends, because y'all thought that they'll never fuck your nigga.
Speaker 4Y'all became friends because y'all had a common theme. We stayed friends because I had trust that this person would not do anything intentionally, but it's fuck ups just like anything.
Speaker 2That's not a fuck up, that's not a fuck up A fuck up is definitely a fuck up.
Speaker 4Well, you should be in a relationship with somebody who you're old or you're a current friend, because we're quick to call them friends and then the moment they do something across us they not understand, I think for me, it's the level of commitment.
Speaker 2So if I'm with a nigga and this nigga done, proposed to me. We all damn near got married. You know what I'm saying Then? No, of course.
Speaker 4You know. No, of course. He also called me a nigga. No, not me, it depends.
Speaker 1Because I ain't going to lie If one of my old friends or something decided they wanted to be my baby daddy.
Speaker 2Bitch, kudos to you. You got the motherfucking patience and you know what I'm saying strength to deal with this crazy ass. Nigga, do your shit, bitch. You know what I'm saying? That's my whole baby daddy.
Speaker 2We was engaged we had a baby, all that. But I come from a different reality where I just do not. I don't hold people to those type of standards. I don't Because one thing for me is I truly, truly want people to be happy, truly, and I'm done with it. It's like a kid on a daycare, on a on a daycare or playground or something they plan with a toy and they plan with it and they love it and they throw that bitch down. They done with it and another mother.
Speaker 2Yeah, another kid come pick up toy. They don't want it today. See somebody else. I'm fucking no more. That's like me, I'm done, I'm done.
Speaker 3Y'all ever seen.
Speaker 2Good Luck, chuck, yeah.
Speaker 3Yes, yes, I'm done like that right. Let's say, for instance, a woman she's been getting her bag, she's been getting her, she's been internalizing her feelings, doing shadow work and all that shit. Niggas, this, that and that. He said that I'm just saying Do it to overcome her internal self and shit, my fucking Peace, I'm love, I'm motherfucking him, being guess what she's gonna blow different, why she look energetic, why she talking here. The watcher talk to purpose and the crazy thing is this is a predatory tactic. He's praying on the bitch. I was different, cuz I come in peace, I come in love, I come in healing and this nigga come in pussy. And then she gonna run up with a nigga who, like, well, he want to be with me. It ain't that, I didn't. I'm just watching you grow and heal. It's a whole different understanding. Man, motherfucker, be bragging bitch. Alright, you got her, she ain't healed.
Speaker 2Now you gonna get a little break on your ass, you.
Speaker 3You want to get it now? No, she ready yes, what do you prefer? Taking control, being taking control of both, both, okay, I Sometimes you might like a woman. Anytime, I would like a woman to take control is in the bedroom.
Speaker 2But it's both, then it's either or. But look, I didn't say what is the first, what is usually common for men.
Speaker 1I think the first thing is sexually no it's not necessarily. That's what I'm saying. Like right, you said sexually, Hold on, hold on. There is no explanation. It's something about a private period.
Speaker 4Y Y'all niggas nasty. Let me be clear though hey, wait, hold on Wait listen listen, I bought the cards, I know it's meant to be nasty motherfucker.
Speaker 3That's the whole point. I'm over here asking this shit all professionally. No fucking way. He's not reading it all professionally, he's trying to be. All of us Listen. Okay.
Speaker 4Wait, wait For the listeners. To be fair, this is called MSM Grown and Sexy and these are supposedly cards where this particular deck is a card where, when you're dating someone and you know dating is awkward and asking the right questions et cetera, so forth. So these are what you're dating.
Speaker 2I didn't know that I thought they were the same.
Speaker 3I didn't know that when you're getting to know someone. So these are he said, he said, he said, he said, he said, he said, he said he said, he said, he said, he said, he said he said, he said, he said, he said, he said, he said he said he said, he said, he said, he said he
Exploring Sexual Preferences and Taboos
Speaker 3said, he said, he said, he said, he said, he said he said, he said, he said, he said, he said, he said he said, he said he said't want to no not at all. He said bitch, don't talk. Hey, I don't fuck around. I don't fuck around, but we're going to have a great time. Oh, we always have a great time. Yeah, but that's just me, it's just gee, it's not. Listen, it's certain things, you is and ain't going to do to me, it's certain things I am going Exactly.
Speaker 3What do you think taking control is? What do you think you mean by taking control? How far I put my dick in her throat? How far I put my dick in her throat.
Speaker 2It could be control and her grabbing your neck while she's sucking your dick like Grab my dick.
Speaker 3See that's what I'm saying, hey that's not what.
Speaker 2I'm saying that ain't that, though, wait a minute.
Speaker 4I hear you, I hear you.
Speaker 3Don't talk to me. If you don't want to talk to me, I know what I'm doing.
Speaker 4I'm being tied up by you. Listen, I was praying.
Speaker 2I'm not your experience, oh, I'm not your experience. I feel you.
Speaker 1I'm going to say both because sometimes, when I feel, like I'm a rider, I like to ride in this one. That's when I get my biggest bad luck and that's where taking control is, when a nigga just wanna hit you from the back and shit. Sometimes I gotta be like roll your ass up from over there, cause you not finna bust, and then I'm finna be livin' out my neck when you're riding. It was also her taking control of your son, what?
Speaker 3Yeah, that's why she was taking control of him.
Speaker 2You like, like this yeah, I'm gonna take control of this son.
Speaker 3This is not a. This is not a.
Speaker 2If you were in front of me, I'd be like you from the back and you from the bus. I gotta grab your ass. I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3You gotta redirect, I'm gonna redirect. Hold on, we gonna get out of this If you learn it. You're in a bus and you wanna pull up and she grabs you and pulls you in that's taking control. I know what the fuck I was talking about.
Speaker 4I was talking about if you're with a new person and you're learning you're not gonna know what to do.
Speaker 3I'm not gonna learn a thing, but you know what?
Speaker 2This is where questions and answers come in.
Speaker 1That's what she's going to take control of Let me get this straight.
Speaker 3She might not ever say anything. No, my act though. You get what I'm saying. Let me get the floor for a second.
Speaker 4Okay, so here's the thing right? A woman taking control doesn't necessarily it can be right, because technically she is setting the patient's mood. Alexa, because technically.
Speaker 2She is setting the pace, she's being serious, she's in control. I like the nigga on the bottom of the truck. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So you?
Speaker 1build it through. No, we got to learn the pace. Learn the pace.
Speaker 3And we want you to learn the pace.
Speaker 1Nigga we on the bottom of it.
Speaker 3Hey, but hey, let's just, let's just do it.
Speaker 1And the plans.
Speaker 3I'm not gonna answer that. If you on that motherfucker, I'm not thinking about holding you in support.
Speaker 4No, you know what? I asked a question before with girls and shit, but it's not my answer. I asked a question before of like have y'all ever seen a man break his wrist? And one man me and my sister was having a conversation and the man had chimed in or whatever. But like, if you're riding them and they just like fucking hate other girl girlfriend. You never pay attention or you don't know. Once I get up there, I'm up there for me.
Speaker 2I ain't gonna lie to you. Let me finish, let me finish, let me finish.
Speaker 3Let me finish.
Speaker 2Let me finish, let me finish, let me finish and then, once I bust my nut, I turn into a magical wizard. What does that?
Speaker 1mean? What does that mean? Wait?
Speaker 3wait, I think I'm trying. You know that she needs a refractory period of 10, 15, 20 minutes. She's not turning into a baby.
Speaker 2A left one at that, a piece of experiment. Hey, that's when the real nigga got to experiment somehow. Hey, that's what we need.
Speaker 3Listen, that's what a real nigga gotta take control. A real nigga gotta make you eat some donuts. I need a sandwich.
Speaker 2I need a motherfucking sandwich. Ok, wait, wait.
Speaker 4OK, so let me finish my statement. So first off, a woman taking control can be a wave.
Speaker 3Yeah, yeah, yeah, it can be the writing.
Speaker 4It could literally be the you coming in, she grabbing you by the back of the head Thank you she's not pushing you down and hopping on top of him. That's what's at the point. We ain't know what that was.
Speaker 3So what do y'all think about Ford from Black Ink admitting that he likes to be fed See, and that hey?
Speaker 2that's what I learned think about Thor from Black Ink admitting that he likes to be fed.
Speaker 3Oh yeah, See, and that?
Speaker 2hey, that's what I learned. I think that's where men go when they start hearing women controlling in the bedroom.
Speaker 1And I'm saying it, that's where Antoine's head? Started going.
Speaker 2No, no, no, no, no, not like that. No no, no, no, no, listen, listen. I'm talking about as far as what we were saying, not as far as what you were agreeing with.
Speaker 1He's thinking of something and I think a lot of men are thinking that no, it ain't no conspiracy.
Speaker 2I thought you were talking about conspiracy. Wow, I thought you said you were going to tell. Tell me if I was gay or not Okay. I don't like it.
Speaker 3The question was what do you prefer? Right, what do you prefer? It was the whole question of is he gay because he's not gay.
Speaker 1Okay to be fair there was a no wait, wait, wait.
Speaker 2I'm late. He said the question is if he's gay, if you're getting married with a gay, that was not true.
Speaker 3Yeah, that no wait, wait, wait, I'm late. He said the question is if you're gay, if you get pegged with a dick.
Speaker 4That was an action. Yeah, if you get your ass hit.
Speaker 2No, there was an action, because you go from an object, whatever it is they choose to use to a whole dick.
Speaker 1These are dicks, that are old dicks from real dicks.
Speaker 2So the moment you enjoy having a dick inside your own.
Speaker 4Let me, let me change that question to not the peg that was the question.
Speaker 2I have to agree with y'all and I was trying to be open about for sure but hold on. I do want to set the tone for men to be open about their sexual attraction and the things that they like because don't be uptight with me for me to be open. I did go, I did go, I did go, go ahead, go ahead.
Speaker 3I know research. He said I know research, I'm a murderer.
Speaker 2I'm a life-long murderer. Pause, pause, let me shout out to.
Speaker 1Faith Antoine.
Speaker 4If y'all didn't hear him, he said I had to go.
Speaker 2He said I had to go. He said I was ready to go, but then I've only done it with one person in my entire life. What you doing, Reed?
Speaker 4I do this trick with champagne and yeah, I'm assuming it has something to do with the non-penis part and this particular person really liked it it wasn't on no gay shit, though, but I like.
Speaker 2I like to drink champagne and fit it all over the person's genitals and things, and you know some other things that I do.
Speaker 4Have you ever sucked penis with ice, though?
Speaker 2I tried that once and he did not like it.
Speaker 3Really yeah, I couldn't imagine that being a great combination, it's really good. That's all the stimulation Depends on how long it was.
Speaker 2That's all the stimulation.
Speaker 3It's the mind stimulation. It is, yeah, he didn't like that at all.
Speaker 1If you don't know, the ice is coming then you just put it on your face.
Speaker 2Yeah, I had a nigga that liked to get his dick sucked up against your teeth.
Speaker 3No, yes.
Speaker 2I swear to God.
Speaker 1He would like to put his teeth around his dick Make me.
Speaker 2Shut my mouth, close my mouth, not on his dick, but close my mouth and then put the dick on the side right here and like a toothbrush yes, I'm just saying you ain't got to say you ain't got more to say than this. I'm just saying I did it's borderline.
Speaker 3It's borderline People own that act.
Speaker 2That's a very original feeling I'm like gross, she's not going to do it, she don't want to do it. So you're going to force it in her mouth? No, you was gonna do it when that happened. No, that's what, that's what I was gonna do. So I was like what would make a man? I never even thought of that or heard of that when he said that this is the first time I ever heard of that, when he said that I was like, and that's the only way I could think of.
Speaker 3When a nigga prefer ass vs pussy. These are certain.
Speaker 2I was very Hold up now.
Speaker 1But it's not just some stupid pussy and niggas any nigga that you have wanted, has always wanted it. But, what I will say about the whole anal experience.
Speaker 2I've done it twice in my entire life. The first time it was horrible. Nigga put mint lubrication on it. That's how I'm telling you.
Speaker 1Ah, that's how it was done. That's how it was done. You had experimented on me, you had. I was like I'm gonna go to the bathroom, I'm gonna go to the bathroom, I'm gonna go to the bathroom.
Speaker 3I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom.
Speaker 2I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna go to the bathroom.
Speaker 4I'm gonna go to the bathroom. I'm gonna From head to motherfucking toe.
Speaker 2And when I say this, knew what he was doing. He was massaging my back to relax me and shit and all the day he was very and so like it was driven.
Speaker 3You have to make sure he had to make sure that he has a clean exit to entry. Yeah, and he didn't.
Speaker 2And he didn't go from after you, you can't do that they can cause infection, and so he was very he did what the fuck he was doing.
Speaker 1He knew what he was doing.
Speaker 2I enjoyed it. I enjoyed it. I can't lie, I enjoyed it, but I would never do it again because I was constipated for two weeks.
Speaker 3No, it could be. It could be. We were just talking about medicine. Right, that could be the medicine. But then there's other people that might allow you to release and you might be more fluid than you ever been, I'm in front of. No, no, I ain't talking about it.
Speaker 4What I'm saying is when I was in high school, I definitely heard about this girl. Yeah and she did it from the twins.
Speaker 2It was from the twins, oh, I thought First off she talked about it to my brother.
Speaker 3First off I'm about to end this part.
Speaker 2I don't know who to ask. No, I gotta ask my friends At Ease.
Speaker 4What's it at I don't know what it's at Ease, but I heard about it, girl, I don't know what it's at.
Speaker 2The name is burning too much, but I feel like there is a way to enjoy animal though, because I definitely did, but I wouldn't do it Enjoy.
Speaker 1I'm gonna fuck up. Why? Because he was raving once. No, he wasn't.
Speaker 2That's what I'm saying. He was very gentle with me. He massaged my back. We was all done.
Speaker 1I'm talking about once he got in there, no once he got in there he slow stroke, Nothing but slow stroke.
Speaker 2And I'm telling you, I had not. My pussy was dripping so hard from that shit. That's when I knew.
Speaker 1That's what I knew. I'm like when they said the.
Speaker 2G-spot is in the ass of a man. I get it. I get it. It's nothing going on back there.
Speaker 1There are more nerve endings on the A's, yeah, and it's good to them.
Speaker 2I learned that with my kids, not that I don't want to bring kids into this but I learned that with children, because when they're constipated, the doctor will tell you to get a Q-tip. No, a. Q-tip and put some Vaseline on it and just rub it around their anus and it will make them release their bowels. I don't even know about the suppository, not the suppository you just roll it around and it will literally cause them to release their value.
Speaker 3With one person, you might be plugged up. Right, she's doing great. With another person, it just might be all the same. You just might open up.
Speaker 1You get what I'm saying Meanwhile I just can't work with them on my own.
Speaker 2I do not like being constipated. I do not like being constipated.
Speaker 1I do not like being constipated, and then that's another fear of mine.
Speaker 2I don't want to be too loose. When you start doing that shit too much men they get loose from the gay relationship they do. Maybe I can wear pads and stuff. I don't think it's there.
Speaker 1No it's because they're menores. I don't think it's their whores. I don't think it's their whores. I'm not saying they're.
Speaker 2That's the only hole he can go into.
Speaker 4No, I'm saying if it's loose. But I'm saying if it's loose, no, it's because they're whores.
Speaker 2No, it's because that's the only hole he got to go into.
Speaker 1If he's a listen I would get the fuck out of here, but if you in a relationship if you in a relationship, y'all fucking do that.
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Speaker 3I don't know. I feel like I the part where men answer, the part where I just talk, I'm just gonna fuck out of here. We start talking about pregnancy, y'all start talking about men and I was just anal and the women.
Speaker 2Okay, let me ask my question, but if I give it for pressuring you about anal and doing it all the time, that's what you're praying for. That's the question.
Speaker 4Let me let me ask my question because it's the fourth question. It's four people. I'm going to answer one, okay, so I'm going to ask my question and then I'm going to answer first. Okay so, and this was the first question. But, um, yeah, you're about you're about to have.
Speaker 1You're about to have sex.
Speaker 4Listen, you're about to have sex for the first time with your new boo and in comes their sexy twin to join the two of you. What you're doing? Hey, am I doing the?
Speaker 3options or not?
Speaker 4Hey, hey, You're getting ready for double the fun. B scream, because you don't get down like that. C asking a lot of questions, D calling out.
Speaker 3I'm going to go with asking questions first, because, as much as it sounds great to be with twins, I want to make sure with your new move in comes other twins, you getting ready to go.
Speaker 3so for me, if like, if I'm still me and her finna, get down with the get down and I don't know, like your sister from the watch, that might be a question, right, maybe she better than you, but I'm not even. I'm good. She might say she might say, well, she's going to join, I don't know, but it has to do with questions. I wouldn't, I wouldn't push that situation. I would allow that situation to come to me. They might. It might be a situation to where they but it's coming to you because yeah, you come to me.
Speaker 4I'm going to welcome that I'm going to welcome you, so his answer would have been uh getting ready for devil?
Speaker 3I don't know. I wouldn't assume the sister could come in. They didn't get what the sister was on.
Speaker 2They didn't get her.
Speaker 4She said she's getting ready to join y'all, she's getting ready to join. In comes their sexy twin to join the two of you so she in, she coming, she joining y'all.
Speaker 3I'm not going to leave this in a situation where I don't have no questions. What's this?
Speaker 4question Okay, so see it. Where are we? You got anybody sitting in? See, first off, if the sister walk in and she don't say shit, obviously they planned this shit, or she don't say shit.
Speaker 3Obviously, they plan this shit. I feel like that's no, I'm a. You think it as a woman, you think it as a man? Yeah, and men have a different frame of mind. I don't give a fuck what. Nothing is Ain't no part of me. And this my fantasy. I'm the only one in my fantasy. I've never imagined another thing that's not as a woman.
Speaker 2I ain't never imagined myself getting fucked by someone. I'm just not into that kind of shit. I don't want to get ramed. I feel like some of them chicks try to use that excuse, it's a different standard For me it was like this is okay with this. It is like chicks in a comment. Right, that's a good question.
Speaker 1I feel like I'm running the angles, that's who's saying it, I feel like Ian, whatever girl Y'all been there, slit this nigga out Right, do all that Right.
Speaker 2But in my head though, I feel like I'm running this nigga Me and the girl. Whoever in there?
Speaker 1Like when I was with, when I was with when I brought the nigga to.
Speaker 4When I brought the female to that I, I'm just making both of them do shit to me, do that shit to me. I said, I said what I said.
Speaker 2I ain't no two niggas going to be up all night.
Speaker 3This is the part where I departed way over my time. Thank y'all so much. 419 and 420. Hey, you said 415. I'm saying you said 315 is what I said. Whatever you said, grade 15.
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Speaker 4All right, that's possible, but no, no because, let's be fair by the time he got here, it was already 249. By the time he got here, he still didn't put your camera out. So don't do that. The camera was together.
Speaker 3It was the tripod, the camera was all on us.
Speaker 4It was you need to know what the fuck to do in a fire. You need to know what the fuck we do in a fire.
Speaker 3I call it MLM.
Speaker 4That's not what we do. We go across the street and watch the fucking video Every man for himself.
Speaker 2I hear me I hear y'all there, I hear y'all there. I'm going to say welcome back and goodbye to Antoine, because we all know when this thing is gonna come back Meanwhile I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile, I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile, I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile.
Speaker 4I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile, I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile, I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile, I'm laughing hard and saying Meanwhile, I'm laughing hard.
Speaker 1Get home alive, dude. Get home alive oh shit Funny as hell.
Speaker 4Thank you, Twan.
Speaker 2Twan, if you cool.
Speaker 3Black man if you know Black man on the fast.
Speaker 2That's why I disappeared from Blackman yeah.
Speaker 1You're in the cake, buddy.
Speaker 4That's funny as hell. All right, that was a good one and, on that note, see you next time yeah.
